For me, personally, the best scenario of expansion ISN'T including Oklahoma. For me it is actually full expansion to the East. That way Iowa stays in a division with it's longest rivals. Going to watch Iowa vs Wisconsin is just plain awesome. The line vs line play is top notch, for those that understand and appreciate such. Iowa vs Minnesota is always a great game for anyone involved with either school. We are eventually going to more divisions, not less. So if Iowa is in a four team division and The Big Ten expands entirely in the West then that means Iowa most likely ends up in a division with three other teams that they have very little history with. The division of Oklahoma, Nebraska, Iowa and Kansas looks great but that is quite a change for Iowa and quite a sacrifice as well. If you are going to go forward a build new historical rivalries then honestly I cant think of a better group of schools. Iowa has a lot in common with Nebraska and Kansas. Not so much so with Oklahoma but both school's and programs have very strong followings so eventually it would build.
For me though, I would rather see The Big Ten expand with Virginia Tech and Missouri while The SEC expands with UNC, UVA and Duke. That would allow the big 12 to then build up with whats left from the ACC, which by no means is small change. You are talking about having some strong brands join you.
The problem with that scenario though is that The PAC is entirely left out and I just don't see the Networks preferring that option to the option that divides up the big 12. That is why I talk about Oklahoma and Kansas to The Big Ten. It is not some personal agenda of mine, it is just that I see it as part of the easiest scenario to sell across the board.
I Want to see conference tournaments. I Want smaller divisions that get back to having strong rivalries within them. Divisions have gotten too big. I would actually prefer no divisions to what we have now or further expansion with just two divisions remaining the way conferences work.
I also completely understand why some OU folks would prefer the SEC or the PAC in sports. Conference Realignment isn't just about sports though. I think some folks don't realize that or they purposefully ignore it because it leads them to think things that they don't want to think about. So, I wont be upset at all if OU doesn't ever join The Big Ten. I am happy to see OU having success this year and I think OU will continue to be competitive for years to come no matter which conference they move to, if they move. I have never bought the idea of Oklahoma recruiting suffering if they leave the Texas schools. If OU leaves the big 12 it will be because the big 12 no longer exists or because it has no where near the strength it has now due to multiple departures. I don't think OU ever leaves unless Texas is leaving too. If Texas is ready though, OU is gone. OU can recruit much of Texas better than most of the Texas schools if Oklahoma football is having success. I just don't buy into the fear talk when it comes to what if's and the Oklahoma football program. It isn't really my place though to call out people for that kind of thinking and that is where I have been wrong here in the past. I'm not trying to be confrontational with anyone here and hopefully chsguy has seen that with how I have been with him the past few pages. I will call out the fraudulent Notre Dame fan though, so pardon me for that if it goes too far.
Edit: Oh and one more thing that I saw in CHS's post that I didn't respond to yet, so I will just post it here as well. I don't live in The Big Ten's geographical fingerprint anymore. I have lived in SEC Land and now I live out West in Arizona. I rarely get back for Iowa games so for me to go back for one, it has to be a big deal. Just thought I would add that for reference.